Why having a goal sometimes it isn't enough on its own

I know I've said one of the most important reasons about having a goal is that - having one. After all it should start you on your way towards achieving it - whatever it is. But sometimes the humps and bumps of normal daily life gets in the way and sooner or later the goal is all but forgotten.

You can of course, stick notes and post reminders - everywhere. You can repeat your goal mantra like - and for some of you - this may work....for a while. One thing I have noticed is this - sooner or later, you can fail to see these things....your eyes slide over them - but they no longer "see" them.

So why bother setting goals?

Well a goal isn't just about the end result - but the journey you have to take to reach it. If a goal doesn't inspire you to change in order to reach it - what's the point - you will have achieved your "goal" without much in the way of effort, or failed to achieve your goal at all. Which is more likely.

Imagine each goal you want to set and achieve is a destination. Like a holiday destination. But the "holiday" doesn't just begin when you reach your destination - but starts the minute you decide you want to go there, and start to plan it in all its glorious detail.

The "journey" is part of the goal. If you don't enjoy the journey you are less likely to be able to enjoy the end result.

So - lets take this apart a bit further.

Where do you want to go?
Why there and not somewhere else?
Where will you stay?
How will you pay for it?
How will you get there?
How many weeks do you want to be away for?
Who will travel with you?
Will you need transport when you arrive?
What do you want to see whilst you are there?
Are there things you want to see / take in on the way?
Where do you find information on the destination / journey / accommodation options?
Do you need to learn a new language?
Do you need shots?
Do you need to lose a few pounds?
Do you need to save a few pounds (or dollars or .....)
Do you need a new wardrobe?
Do you need a new suitcase?
How are you going to achieve it?
What are you going to do today in order to move the goal item forward?

Ask these kind of questions of any of your goals and you will soon be able to cement in your mind whether the goal is one that you really want to pursue or whether it is something you only think you want.

Each of these kinds of questions is a reason to ask yourself WHY? Why do I want this and not something else? Why do I want to go there and not someone else? What difference will it make to my life if I achieve this goal?

And perhaps the most important questions of all

WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DON'T ACHIEVE THIS GOAL?

WILL I REGRET NOT DOING IT?

WHAT IF I HAD JUST 3-6 MONTHS AFTER WHICH TIME THIS GOAL ITEM WILL NO LONGER BE AVAILABLE TO ME....EVER AGAIN...HOW WILL I FEEL THEN?

Each one a powerful question - and each should give you a powerful reason as to why.

To comment -
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Kind Regards
Elle
Overcoming the procrastination habit with a daily dose of motivational medicine.
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Comments

[Rhia]

WILL I REGRET NOT DOING IT?

This is the question that has motivated me the most in recent times. As a result I am leaving my job and my city to chase my dreams for a few months. To be honest I can but try and even if I don't succeed at least I will have no regrets!