windshields or rear view mirrors?

Are you focussed on your future or your past?

If you spend all your time wishing how things could be different, or if you had only done so and so then everything would be different now - I would say you are focussing in the wrong direction.

Once a decision has been made and you have made a commitment to that decision - accept the fact and use it to your advantage. Accept that you can make a "wrong" decision - so what - we all do, which is why we call it "learning from the past". But there is no time like the present to shift your focus.

The answer to the question of "What do you want?" lies beyond the beam of your headlights - do you know where you are heading - or do you just know where you have been?